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Tuesday, 29 January 2013

On the Contracepting Mentality

Thanks to Philotheaonfire...........


In discussions with Catholics in England over the past 30 years, I have discovered, to this present day, the wide acceptance among Catholics of contraception. Contraception is held to be a "sacred cow" even among some Catholics who are anti-abortion.

How this happened to become so widespread partly has to do with three things which mark Catholicism in Great Britain since the War.

First, is the acceptance of mixed marriages. The marrying of a Catholic to a non-Catholic has been more widespread here than in America for a variety of reasons. One has been the soft-pedalling by the clergy of the dangers of such marriages and also, the demographics.

Second has been the sad and horribly scandalous acceptance of the clergy of the contraceptive mentality and the rejection of Humanae Vitae. This is still obvious by the position of the clergy towards The Tablet, which is still sold in the back of Catholic Churches and is supported by those priests who allow this to happen. The Tablet immediately broke with the Church over Humanae Vitae so many years ago.

Third, and this may be unique to British Catholics, as I never heard anyone state this opinion in the States, is that birth control is fine in a marriage relationship but not fine for fornication, that is, sex outside of marriage.

This, of course, is a misunderstanding of the purpose of marriage. This error lies at the feet of the clergy. I hate to say this, but too many priests have over-emphasized the primary reason of marriage as companionship and have separated the marriage act from the call of God to pro-create. NFP classes should be offered in all dioceses, so that engaged couples can learn how to use this effective means as soon as they are married. Why the emphasis on children has slipped away is part of the contraceptive mentality and the forgetfulness of one of the most important reasons for marriage, the establishment of the nuclear family, which is not a politically correct term.

Until this mentality is addressed, Catholics have lost the culture war in Britain and people's souls as in danger.

There is no such thing as invincible ignorance in our society, so that cannot be use as an excuse. Sadly, adults in Britain, who have grown up with the contracepting mentality, must be evangelized, which is hard when one of two in the couple are not open to changing.

Only the Holy Spirit can convict, but we must be willing to pray for loving approaches to this serious problem.

To be continued....

4 comments:

Emily said...

You are absolutely right here. I use Catholic Match, in an attempt to find a Good Catholic Guy, and they ask your position on parts of Church doctrine. So many of them don't accept the church's teaching on contraception, immediately ruling them out...

Supertradmum said...

Wow, Catholic Match should screen them out. Shocking.

Lynda said...

Sounds like Catholic Match is a misnomer, then. Patrick McCrystal's book, "Who is at the Centre of Your Marriage, Jesus or the Pill?" is very good and down to earth.

Supertradmum said...

Lynda, I am going to try and get that book. Thanks so much for the reference.