The hardest codes of sin to break are those which have been in families for years and which have destroyed relationships in families for years. Those which are subtle also become the hardest codes to break.
For example, if family members all have a habit of negativity and even cruelty, where everyone acts the same way, the code-breaker may be the only one who sees these sins. The code-breaker would have to repent of these sins in her life and then pray for the family members.
Sometimes the subtle sins become so intrenched in families, that families identify with those sins. Gluttony may be one such sin, or excessive shopping and wasting money, or, one of the worst, narcissism.
I know families where incestuous relationships where daughters were preyed upon by dads and granddads have been broken by honest people who break the code by being open and admitting that the evil is in their family.
But, what if the sin is spiritual incest where the father constantly puts the daughter above the mother in attention and gifts? Where the father spends more time with the daughter than the wife and where the wife's needs are never considered?
The daughter is manipulated to hate the mother and to desire to be the center of the dad's life, leading to mutual symbiotic sins. The girl may become a narcissist because of this horribly manipulated relationship.
This is a spiritual incest, where maybe nothing physical has happened, but the relationship is out of order and seriously sinful.
A person may be called to break that type of code of sin, which may have been passed down in how families act towards each other.
Code-breakers also are those of different ethnic groups who marry into families where sins which are accepted by certain ethnic groups as "normal" need to be broken.
For example, an English family may have years of Masonry passed down in the family and an outsider from another country, who is Catholic, like a Polish girl marrying into the family, can bring in the fresh perspective in order to break the code.
Or, cheating in business, or being members of the Mafia or being so-called Catholic democrats who support pro-abortion politicians....all these could be codes which the outsider can see and break through prayer and suffering.
Marrying outside the enclosed cultural group may be a healthy way to break codes passed down in certain cultural groupings.
to be continued....
